>>Message :> When we say the three words?
>>"I Love U" Do we really mean it or otherwise,
>>there is more to it.
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>>"Fears over tomorrow and regrets over yesterday
>>are twin thieves that rob us of the moment. Do
>>what you think needs to be done!"
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>>A good relationship isn't a game you play or an
>>ego trip you take. It is about love and two
>>people. Loving someone can give us the greatest
>>joy we can ever know and it can hurt more that
>>we can believe too. When it does not really hurt
>>when that person did something disappointing to
>>you, but really hurts when you see that person
>>in pain and sadness, then you know you truly
>>love that person.
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>>Loving someone means you should be ready to
>>experience heartache and happiness at the same
>>time. That's the reward and that's the risk.
>>Unless we are willing to experience it, we will
>>never really know what it's like to love and be
>>loved. Sharing love is probable the most
>>valuable and meaningful experience a person can
>>ever have.
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>>And there's a difference between being in love
>>with someone and loving someone. It's the
>>difference between a love that's fickle, wild
>>and short-lived and one that's tender and
>>passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time. The
>>first is easy. The second, the one that really
>>matters to all of us, takes work because it's
>>about keeping a relationship.
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>>Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be
>>able to communicate with each other. Nobody can
>>read anybody's mind. We always presume that our
>>partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in
>>time we might be able to predict or sense each
>>other's thoughts but it's never perfect and
>>takes time to develop. Getting the chance to
>>love and be loved by someone is truly blessed.
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>>Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what
>>you want him/her to be. Everyone is pretty and
>>special in his/her own special way. No one is
>>perfect. It is true love which closes the gap of
>>imperfections to form a smooth surface of
>>acceptance for each other. True love sees and
>>accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also
>>true love which makes a person change for the
>>better.
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>>The power of true love to a person is
>>undeniable. A relationship needs commitments
>>too. What is love with commitments from each
>>other anyway? It's like principles and values.
>>Everyone has them but they only mean as much as
>>we are willing to stand for them. The same goes
>>for out commitments to relationships, and the
>>person we love.
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>>"Love is like an antique vase. It's hard to
>>find, hard to get, but easy to break." Everyday
>>everywhere, people fall in love.but just how
>>many of these relationships are self-sacrificing
>>love, and not just relationships which are
>>formed only for the intense feeling of falling
>>in love? I know hundreds of friends who say the
>>magical words "I love you". but more often than
>>not, the truth is just - I am IN love with you.
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>>There is a difference between being in love
>>with someone and loving someone. If a person
>>says he/she is in love with you, he/she means
>>that he/she likes you for who you are now and
>>he/she fell in love with you because of the
>>present you. This kind of love is temporary and
>>lasts only as long as the fairytale lasts. When
>>fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us
>>back to reality, we see the heartache of such a
>>relationship. where both were only IN love with
>>each other.
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>>But if person says he/she loves you, he/she
>>means that he/she loves you unconditionally for
>>who you are now, who you were in the past and
>>who you might be in the future. When he/she says
>>he/she loves you and really means it, you have
>>to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if
>>you're in love with the idea of being in love.
>>It is very hard to see the difference through
>>logical thinking. Let your heart guide you. May
>>you be blessed on your soul-searching journey
>>for your soul mate.
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>>Friends, today, I would like you to think about
>>what you've just read. To those who are
>>already "attached", ask yourself again. Is this
>>true love? Do I really love him/her? Or is it
>>just another infatuation? ARE YOU willing to
>>give? Even though you may not get back the same
>>amount you gave? ARE YOU cheating yourself?
>>Thinking that you really love him/her and not
>>just taking him/her as a substitute from your ex-
>>boyfriend/girlfriend?
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>>Friends, let today be the day you truly
>>understand love.. And I know that none of you
>>would want to be the victim in this game of
>>love. If after reading this and answering all
>>the questions, you are very sure that you love
>>him/her, tell him/her that. Let him/her know how
>>much you love him/her and that you are willing
>>to take the risks of being hurt by him/her in
>>the course of the development of you
>>relationship with him/her. This is a love that's
>>sacrificial, ARE YOU ready for it?
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>>Cherish the Past, It made you what you are.
>>Treasure the Present, It's a timeless gift. Pray
>>for the Future, it's where hopes are fulfilled.
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>>When there is a
>>will, there is a way..